Hunter’s Stories

“FRIENDS REMEMBER HUNTER’s NATURAL Humor” by Debbie Missud.

He taught us resilience, empathy, and how to connect with one another.

Hunter was an integral part of my life from the day I met him in 7th grade. Through middle school, high school, and those first few years of college, Hunter was always a source of comfort and support for me. Although we were going through life’s rites of passage around the same time, he taught me lessons that I carry with me every day about resilience, empathy, and most importantly, how to not take life too seriously. 

When we went to separate colleges, Hunter made a point to always stay in touch - even if there was nothing to talk about. He wouldn’t start his texts with a traditional “hey, how are you?”. He would always send the most obscure messages that allowed us to pick up right where we left off and skip the small talk, like just one word - the name of the last rock concert we all attended.

I imagine Hunter laughing to himself about these messages and wanting to share the humor, always consciously spreading positivity. Hunter was known for his ability to put a smile on everyone’s faces; even catching up after a short time apart was no exception.  I find that these messages embody Hunter’s personality and show his efforts to authentically connect with people. 

Although coming back to McLean has not been the same without his lightheartedness, selflessness, and iconic dance moves around, Hunter’s best qualities permeate through all who have had the pleasure of getting to know him. 

In these trying times, we can all take some lessons from Hunter’s playbook about finding joy in the small things in life and sharing that joy with our loved ones.